What someone needs for a good night’s sleep varies a ton from person to person, whether we’re talking the level of ambient noise, the darkness of the room, and, crucially, the kind of mattress they need. That means that when it comes to mattress shopping for couples, there can be a few extra challenges: One person might prefer a plush, sink-into-it mattress while the other might go for a firmer mode. Or, one person might be a light sleeper while the other tosses and turns.
Mattresses are an investment, so making the right purchase is crucial: They’re often on the expensive side and designed to last up to 10 years. On the plus side? Most companies these days offer an extended trial period where you can make sure it’s right for you.
The more informed you are in your search for the best mattress for you and your S.O., the better. We’ve talked to six health professionals, mattress testers, and other sleep and mattress experts for their recommendations for the best mattresses for couples.
Tips for mattress shopping as a couple
As with many other parts of a relationship, communication is key. After all, about one-third of your day will be spent laying on this (not cheap) purchase. Here’s how to successfully find the best mattress for you and your partner.
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Communicate your sleep needs transparently. “When couples shop for a mattress together, they both need to be transparent about what they need,” says Dr. Daniella Marchetti, a licensed sleep psychologist whose work focuses on treating insomnia, CPAP adherence, and circadian rhythm disorders in both adults and children.
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Don’t let the initial price of a mattress put you off. Mattress companies have a ton of sales and discounts, so don’t let the full price (including on our expert picks) put you off. Chances are if the mattress you want isn’t on sale, it will be soon.
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Consider three key things when mattress shopping as a couple. According to Marchetti, there are three top things to consider when buying a mattress as a couple:
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How much space you need to sleep without feeling crowded
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The type of support you need for your body and sleeping position
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How much motion isolation is preferred on each side
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Think outside of the box. If it’s hard to reach a compromise because you and your partner have different sleep preferences in these departments, then Marchetti suggests trying mattresses with dual-firmness options or split configurations. That way each person gets the experience they need for a good night’s sleep.
Ready to start the search? Check out our sleep and mattress experts’ top picks for mattresses for couples.
Experts’ top picks for best mattress for couples
Sleep Number Classic Series, from $1,899: Customizable firmness for each side
DreamCloud Premier Hybrid, from $1,099: Pressure-relieving foam with wrapped-coil support
Saatva Luxury Firm Classic Mattress, from $2,179 : A cool pick for hot sleepers
TEMPUR-Pedic TEMPUR-Adapt Hybrid, : Great motion isolation and pressure relief



